Be A Man!
In today’s reading from the One Year Bible Online (1 Kings 2-3:2) King David breathes his last. In so doing, he gives his son Solomon one last piece of advise: “Take courage and be a man.” For some the charge to “be a man” might suggest a call to be strong, or tough, or relentless, or dogged. It might suggest certain behavior towards women or to one’s enemies (I’m not suggesting they are one in the same). The common theme that runs through all of them is the notion of being large and in charge – a “man’s man!”
As we read on, however; we find David suggesting no such thing. The passage continues:
Observe the requirements of the Lord your God, and follow all his ways. Keep the decrees, commands, regulations, and laws written in the Law of Moses so that you will be successful in all you do and wherever you go.
Though throughout his life David had been a “Man’s Man,” the kind of man he’s talking about is a man of submission. “Observe the requirements… Keep the decrees, commands, regulations, and laws…” David understood that anyone can act like a “Man’s Man.” He himself had once, and Solomon was the result of that moment of weakness. David had come to understand that being a real man meant complete submission to God. David had always been good at living that out – right up to that fateful point when Solomon was conceived with Bathsheba. In that moment of turning away from submission to God’s expectations and pursuing his own pleasures, he failed to be a real man – a man of God – and his actions initiated the downfall of his kingdom.
So, if you are a man (or a woman, for that matter), be a “Real Man” and let God be the one that’s “large and in charge.”